His Secret Obsession is a secret weapon for women who want to improve their current relationship or who want to find their happily ever after. It’s an online relationship program that focuses on bridging the gap between men and women; the things that separate the two and make it so difficult to have a happy, successful and long-lasting relationship. And unlike other relationship regimes, this one does not require you to change what you want; who are you, what you look like or anything like that. It’s all about staying true to yourself and learning valuable information and professional relationship strategies that tap into the male psyche to appeal to their greatest needs. So, if you’re ready to create a long-lasting, happy and healthy relationship without playing head games and reciting awkward one-liners, here’s what you can expect from His Secret Obsession.

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What is His Secret Obsession About?
Despite men seeming like the most complicated creatures on this planet, they’re actually quite simple. The problem is that as women, we are designed differently and have a hard time understanding or even recognizing what a man wants, and how to provide them with that without taking away from your own needs.
His Secret Obsession is here to help you. Created by a highly-renowned relationship coach, this program bridges the gap between men and women to eliminate the separation and confusion that many of us experience. It’s broken down into a two-part series and 17-different modules, all of which cover every aspect about dating, finding and maintaining a healthy relationship. Spoiler alert: It’s about appealing to a guy’s senses by using what he is already driven to. By learning this powerful strategy, you’re able to remove the biggest problems men have with relationships, commitment and monogamy. More importantly, what you learn can actually make your man – current, past or potential partner actually yearn to have these things with you. It’s all about the power of perspective and psyche and His Secret Obsession teaches you everything there is to know while also guiding you along the way.
I’ll get into the details of this in just a moment but for now, here’s a look at what you get when you start His Secret Obsession:
- Main Program
- 7 Day Workbook
- Text Message Formulas
You also receive some bonus programs and guides for free, which include:
- Bonus: Why Men Shut Women Out
- Bonus: The 3 A’s of Effortless Attraction
- Bonus: Uncover His Deepest Desires with Easy “Relationship Detective” Methods
- Bonus: Hero Instinct Case Study #1, 2, 3, 4 and 5

Now, the really great thing is that since the program is all about making the dating and relationship process easy, the creator also made using the program easy as well. In other words, you don’t have to wait or pay for shipping or to start taking control of your love life. Instead, you just sign in and you can get started as soon as you purchase. You have the option to download the program onto your laptop, smartphone, tablet or desktop computer, access it online or download it in audio format. All of these options are great but I definitely recommend downloading it onto your electronic devices, as you never know when you’ll need to put your new tactics into action.
If that wasn’t enough to get you excited about creating the best relationship that serves you and your partner’s highest good, you’ll be happy to know that you can try the entire program out risk-free. It comes with a 60 Day Money Back Guarantee, which gives you two months of unlimited access to the modules. So, you have nothing to lose by giving it a try.
Who is the Creator of His Secret Obsession?
James Bauer is the expert relationship coach that created this program. He has spent his career helping thousands of women get the relationship they want, simply by teaching them how to bridge the gap between the two genders – and that’s exactly what you get in this program too.
Brief Summary of His Secret Obsession Program
His Secret Obsession is a comprehensive program that serves as every woman’s secret weapon for getting the relationship they want and deserve. Throughout this program, you learn powerful knowledge, techniques and strategies that help you bridge the gap that separates men and women. You learn why men are so scared of commitment and monogamy, what they dislike about relationships, what their psyche looks for in a potential girlfriend/wife, and so much more. Then, you learn how to put your newfound knowledge into action to create a long-lasting, successful and happy relationship.
The strategies are taught to you by a highly-renowned relationship coach, and they work on every man, every woman and every relationship. If you’re currently in a relationship and are unhappy with your partner or the (lack of) progress your love life is taking, you can use this information to appeal to your man’s current desires to get him to want to change, commit or take things to the next level. And if you are single and ready to mingle, you can use this program to refine your dating strategies and approach, so you leave every man wanting more of your love and attention.
It’s genius and it all comes down to the psyche of a man.
To give you a better idea of the types of things you learn, here’s a look at the different modules:
Part One: How the Hero Instinct Works
- The Secret Longing of Every Man
- The Unspoken Desire He’ll Never Admit
- Make Him See the Light
- The Fascination Trigger
- Why Men Say, “I’m just not ready”
- How your Desire Can Fascinate Him
- The Secret Current of Happy Relationships
- Rocket Fuel: How to Build Relationship Momentum Fast
- How to Become His Secret Obsession
- Get Deeper Intimacy by Revealing More
- Three Things that Can Go Wrong (and how to fix them)
The first part of the program is where you learn the in’s and out’s of the hero instinct. It is designed to bridge the gap between what a man wants and what you want in a relationship. It teaches you how this approach works, the different ways you can trigger the hero instinct, the secret to a more satisfying and exhilarating romance and much more. For example, the fascination trigger is a technique you learn that is all about capturing a man’s attention for the right amount of time to secure a deep emotional investment.
Part Two: How to Use the Signals
- The Private Island Signal
- The X-Ray Question
- The Glimpse Phrase
- The Secret Currency of Happy Relationships
- The I Owe You Signal
- The Damsel in Distress Signal
Part two of the program takes what you’ve learned in part one and teaches you how to put it into action. It goes deeper into using the different signals to get the outcome you want and it even comes with real-life examples, stories, concepts and scenarios. Each signal works differently to provide you with the results you want. For example, the private island signal is all about unleashing your natural seductive qualities.
Text Message Formulas
- Why Texting
- How Curiosity Phrases Can Keep Him Engaged
- How to Create Curiosity Triggers When You’re Apart
- Texting Your Life Story
If you aren’t sure how to text your way through dating and relationships, this guide is for you. It goes over the importance of learning how to text properly to ensure you send the right text that is going to get the response you want. There are different options for different situations too. For example, you learn how to create curiosity when you and the man are physically apart.

The Advantages of the Program
- It makes dating easy in this not-so-easy dating world
- Material is easy to understand, relate to and implement
- Different examples and options based on your specific situation
- Digital version allows you to access the material anytime, anywhere (and privately on your own device)
- PDF or audio format available
- Money back guarantee allows you to try it out for 60 days risk-free.
The Disadvantages of the Program
- Only available in a digital version (which comes with many benefits and free bonuses)
The Verdict
His Secret Obsession is a comprehensive relationship guide designed exclusively for women. It is jam-packed with valuable information, strategies and techniques that bridge the gap that separates men and women. By doing so, you are able to create the relationship that is best for both you and your partner, and it’s all done by using the man’s current drives to get what you need and deserve. And you even get two months to try it, as you receive a 60 Day Money Back Guarantee as soon as you purchase. So, you might as well see what it can do for you. Certainly, you wouldn’t want to leave it up to a 1 in 562 chance or worse, right swipes.
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)
The program comes with 17 modules (separated into two parts) that guide you through the process – from start to finish. They cover all types of scenarios, techniques and circumstances, which can be access online or downloaded onto your personal tech devices. The modules are available in an audio format as well.
Of course. The program comes with a vast array of examples, scenarios and options to use depending on the scenario and situation.. The 7-Day Workbook also recaps all of the them in one place, so you can quickly access the steps and techniques without having to scan through the entire program.
Currently, the program does not have any additional discounts available as it is already priced to make it affordable for anyone looking for some expert dating advice. If this ever changes, it would be announced on the author’s official website.
The program is 100% digital, which is available in PDF or audio format. There is no option to get a physical copy at this time. However, you can download and print off the guides as an alternative.
James Bauer is the author of this program. He has also created the popular programs: “What Men Secretly Want” and “Relationship Rewrite Method”.
The offers several options for customer support. You can contact the author and their team directly by creating a customer service ticket with their 24/7 support line. There’s also an online community forum, where users can share ideas, advice, and experiences.